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This is both a vent and asking for advice?

I'm a 21 y/o chubby woman, goth sometimes, and I just relocated for the summer. Went to a local small café for the vibes, but this guy (28M) walked in, ordered, and sat by himself reading. After some consulting with friends I decided to approach him. I said I was new to the area and asked if he wanted company. We talked for over an hour, he took me outside to show me his car, and we walked around the strip of small businesses for a while. Great time and great conversation the whole way! I got his Discord—he seemed a little bashful when we exchanged contacts, but I'm very strict on consent so I tried to make sure it was okay. Now, this whole time i didn't really say anything to imply i was hitting on him, but the fact that I went up to him in the first place probably says something.

Next day i was considering going to see a movie, so I texted him asking if he had plans. Radio silence. Hasn't said anything to me.

I'm out here single-handedly trying to solve the male loneliness epidemic and this is what i get 😭 why do people do this?

Anyway, point is.. do men/people/etc like it when women initiate? Did I do something else wrong here? The only thing I can think of is that I might have come on too strong—I am a very expressive person with a lot of presence.